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Wed 21 Jul 2010
I was having dinner with a friend and we laughed over his latest adventure. Of course, we were able to laugh about it because he had the wisdom and strength not to immediately react to a situation, that could have proven deadly.
He was in a cage with a 500 lb female tiger that he had recently started to sponsor. Her trainer was in there and told him to remain calm whenever he could see that she was becoming extremely territorial with her “new toy”! As she placed her enormous arm around his body and took his arm into her mouth, his first instinct was to yank it away and run for his life. Just pulling back a little, caused her to clamp down her teeth and give him a constant reminder of the importance of being slow to react. He now sports two small scars on his arm. It could have been so much worse.
Though most of us will have few, if any, life-or-death situations; we will all experience circumstances that cause our heart to race and make us want to react immediately. Perhaps someone just sent you a nasty or threatening email. Perhaps you just found out that someone is spreading gossip. Perhaps you lost a business contract even though you did all the work. Reacting immediately to these types of events is actually the worst response. While it may not kill us, it could potentially tarnish our reputation; cause us to say things that we later regret; or end a relationship that could have been salvaged.
Unless your house is on fire or your child is about to dart into traffic, there are very few times when you must react immediately. When you experience an upsetting or unsettling occurrence, always stop before you do anything. Take some deep breathes. Count your blessings. Stretch. Go for a walk. Listen to some music. When you are in a more calm state of mind, sit down with a pen and paper & ask yourself these questions…
1. Why am I upset?
2. What is the most professional/spiritual way to handle this?
3. What steps do I need to take to address this so that it does not escalate or happen again? Would it be best to just ignore it so as not to antagonize?
4. Do I need to sever ties with this person? If so, how do I do that and remain “on the high road”?
5. Do I need to seek help from someone trustworthy and qualified?
6. What is the lesson for me to learn?
7. What is the humor in this?
The next time you find yourself feeling like a toy in the jaws of one of life’s ‘tigers’, simply STOP before acting. That way, the scars that you get, if any, will be small and you will feel as proud as a lion.
(Photo by Arvind Balaraman ~ http://www.freedigitalphotos.net/images/view_photog.php?photogid=1058)
Wed 7 Jul 2010
It has been my life-long dream to be a writer and a speaker. When I was a little girl, I would write stories and read them to my parents, who always gave me raving reviews! In the summer of 2009, I made the decision to finally fulfill that dream.
In March of this year, I entered a competition, along with 2800 other Authors, called “The Next Top Spiritual Author” with my first solo book, “Gratitude Habit”. In May, I advanced to Round 2, along with 270 other Authors. During a conference call yesterday, the 25 Authors who are advancing into Round 3 were announced. I am grateful & honored to be one of them!
The night before the call, I could not sleep at all as I was filled with anticipation. The morning of the call, I was invited to visit a page on Facebook where several participants were sharing their feelings. Everyone was feeling nervous and excited about the announcement. When they called my name, I instantly started crying and fell to my knees to give thanks to God. Then, I started thinking “Did they really just call my name?” I was almost scared to believe it! It wasn’t until someone posted “congratulations” on my Facebook wall that it started to sink in that I actually had advanced!!
After the call, I told my three year old son, Jake, that it was time to do a happy dance, which we reserve for really big celebrations! We danced and jumped and sang until I was out of breathe! We then placed a few phone calls to share the news with our closest friends and Jake caught on that they were saying “congratulations”. Later that day, he said “Congratunations, Mommy!” It was so sweet and adorable!!!!
In the first two rounds, part of our score was based on obtaining votes from the public and I am so grateful to all of my supporters. In this round, there will be no public voting. Each of the 25 Authors will submit two more chapters of our book, which will be reviewed by a panel of publishing professionals. The panel will choose the four finalists for round four of the competition. Every Author who entered this contest deserves applause. I am looking forward to reading each book that comes to fruition because of this spiritual movement.
As I continue forth on my mission to spread the power of gratitude, my biggest wish is that my parents were still alive to see me working on making my dream come true. I know that they would be my biggest fans!!
Thu 1 Jul 2010
I was out of town Tuesday night when I received the text from my room-mate/manny, just before midnight. He was contacting me with the news that my air conditioner had died…completely. We live in Central Florida, where we have been experiencing temperatures in the 90’s, and even in the low 100’s some days!
My immediate reaction was an expletive spoken under my breath (which I quickly asked forgiveness for). But, then I started “practicing what I preach” in my Gratitude Boot Camp sessions. I took some deep, cleansing breaths and started counting all of my blessings. Then, I said my prayers and drifted off to sleep soundly (instead of tossing and turning and worrying, as I would have done in days past).
The next day, I did not allow myself to get upset at all about the broken air conditioner, even though it was happening at an inopportune time. Instead, I focused on my blessings; remembered that I grew up in a house with no air in Florida and survived; and took action to find ways to live with the situation for a while, by getting my hands on some oscillating fans to use temporarily. I went about my day in a calm way, knowing that “this too shall pass”.
As I was driving home last night, I kept my thoughts on all of the good things going on in my life, not allowing any negative statements to enter my brain, not even for a minute! When we arrived home, I explained to my almost-four year old son, Jake, that he was only gonna sleep in a light shirt, instead of his jammies and socks, for a while. I started walking towards the stairs to put him to bed. I felt completely at ease with our situation and was ready to let the hot night take me back to happy, childhood memories.
As I was passing by the closet that holds the breaker box for my house, I stopped to check it even though David had already done so. The breaker for the air conditioner appeared to be lined up with all of the rest, but I flipped it off and back on any way. It was music to my ears when I heard the air conditioner kick on and Jake squealed with delight when his Mommy started doing a very up-beat happy dance! We danced around and sang our new “Mommy and Jake are Grateful for Air Conditioning” song for quite a while before we went up to his bedroom. It was fun!!!
I woke up feeling extra grateful and happy today. David is perplexed. Jake is well-rested. And, I am feeling the powerful sense of accomplishment that comes with remaining calm during a crises.
Resolve, right now, that you will remain calm the next time an unexpected challenge arises in your life. It is powerful.
Fri 25 Jun 2010
I have lived in Celebration, the town that Disney developed, for 10 years and I love it! You know that whenever Disney puts their mark on something, it is going to be extraordinary.
Now, they are developing an exquisite community that is located inside Disney…nestled between The Magic Kingdom and Epcot! This luxurious neighborhood is known as “Golden Oak”, named after a ranch in California where Walt Disney used to go to continue dreaming and using his imagination to create what is now known as “the most magical place on Earth”.
“Golden Oak” will be a gated community situated on 980 acres, with almost half of the acreage consisting of conservation land. It will ultimately be filled with 450 luxury residences that will range in price from $1.5 to $8 Million. It will be comprised of gorgeous, custom single family homes and lovely, Tuscan-style courtyard homes.
The families who purchase in “Golden Oak” will buy a beautiful lot to have their dream home built upon. The first release of these desirable homesites is taking place now, with less than 30 being offered at this time.
Residents of “Golden Oak” will enjoy many amenities including private VIP transportation; theme park benefits; special event tickets; exclusive community activities; concierge services; a private clubhouse featuring fine dining and upscale fitness facilities; and access to the largest “Four Seasons Resort” in North America. The “Four Seasons Resort”, that is planned for this brilliant community, will boasts an 18-hole golf course, restaurants, and a relaxing spa.
As a real estate broker in Florida, it would be my pleasure to send you more information on this extravagant piece of the most magical place on earth and to accompany you on a private tour of the area. Please feel free to contact me at Sandy@SandySellsFlorida or at 407.592.HOME (4663).
(The photo of the European Country Estate was taken by Simon Howden ~ http://freedigitalphotos.net/images/view_photog.php?photogid=404
Tags: Celebration, Concierge Service, Disney, Fine Dining, Florida, Four Seasons Resort, Golden Oaks, Golf, Luxury Homes, Orlando, Real Estate, sandy harper, Spa, Vacation Resort, Walt Disney World Homes
Thu 10 Jun 2010
Have you ever been hit by an emotion so suddenly that your immediate reaction almost knocked you down?
The realization that my new baby was going to grow up too quickly was the day that he no longer fit into his newborn diapers. I burst into tears and sobbed while trying to hold him still while searching for the Size 1 diapers! ”Oh my word”, I said to myself between tears, “So, this is why people kept saying ‘they grow up soooo fast’ while I was pregnant” (something that I find myself doing to every expectant woman I see now).
This week, almost four years later, it hit me again whenever I placed the call to enroll my son, Jake, into pre-kindergarten. When I hung up, I started sobbing…almost uncontrollably! ”How in the world did the last four years go by so quickly?” I wondered, as I felt a big sense of nostalgia and a small sense of panic. Am I spending enough quality time with him? Am I focusing on what is most important to create a life of prosperity, safety, and happiness for him? Am I teaching him everything he needs to know to be a good student and, most importantly, a good person?
Later that day, I overheard him say to one of his toys “My Mommy is grateful.” I relaxed and thought “Well…I am off to a good start!”
(picture courtesy of http://freedigitalphotos.net/images/view_photog.php?photogid=989)
Thu 27 May 2010
Every once in a while, Opportunity knocks and you know that not only do you need to open the door wide…you need to grab her, give her a welcoming hug, invite her to dinner and use your best china!
I was sitting at my desk at the end of March and, at the exact moment that I thought to myself, ”I must get my book written NOW”, I received an email from a friend that invited Authors and Aspiring Authors to take part in “The Next Top Spiritual Author” competition. Wow…another serendipitous moment that sent chill bumps all over my body!
Ever since I created Gratitude Boot Camp last year and started sharing it as a coaching program, I have been led to put it into book form so that millions can benefit from learning how to make gratitude a daily habit. During the first Gratitude Boot Camp session I watched, in awe, as people’s lives were transformed, personally and professionally. After speaking at a Law of Attraction Meetup, I was approached by a woman who told me that I had given her the strength to continue after losing her son 8 months before. My story had inspired her to be grateful for the time that she had him and to focus on her current blessings. That is when I decided to include some of my personal story, in my book, along with the steps needed to create a life filled with happiness, love, peace, success, and abundance.
The Next Top Author Competition started on March 29th. It is comprised of four rounds where Authors share their books with a panel of publishing experts and with the public. In the final round, the Grand Prize Winner will receive a publishing contract with Hampton Roads Publishing. I am excited to present my upcoming book, Gratitude Habit, as an entry. Please visit http://sn.im/TopAuthor to watch the video pitch of my book; read the book proposal and read Chapter 1. While you are there, be sure and vote!
There were 2800 Authors who competed in Round 1 and 271 advanced to Round 2. I am so honored to be one of them and am grateful for everyone’s support. I finished uploading my book proposal and Chapter 1 last night, just as the Season Finale’ of American Idol was ending. I thought to myself “How exciting! I feel like I am involved in ‘The American Idol for Authors’!!
Welcome Home, Opportunity! I’ve been waiting for you my entire life!!
Tags: Coaching, Counting Blessings, Gratitude, inspirational, Law of Attraction, Life, Living in Gratitude, new beginnings, Next Top Author, sandy harper, Self-Development, The Next Top Spiritual Author Competition, Writer, Writing
Wed 12 May 2010
Thu 29 Apr 2010
Begin and end your day with these affirmations.
Take some deep breaths and get into a relaxed state and, as you read each one, feel the emotion that it invokes.
Do this daily…your words create your reality…
♥ I am filled with Gratitude for all of my blessings today!
♥ I have great self-management skills!
♥ I am surrounded by positive people who add value to my life!
♥ I am massively organized!
♥ I have a joyful spirit!
♥ I am financially free and am Grateful for my riches!
♥ Today, I will concentrate on taking one step forward, however small!
♥ I do whatever it takes!
♥ I act in spite of my fears!
♥ My loved ones are happy, healthy, and prospering!
♥ I schedule my priorities every day!
♥ I am laser-focused on my priorities!
♥ I am a self-reliant and successful person!
♥ I forgive quickly and move on!
♥ I resolve issues quickly and with a calmness of spirit!
♥ I live a healthy lifestyle!
♥ I learn from every experience!
♥ I eliminate all negativity out of my life!
♥ My thoughts are creative and I am now creating the reality that I desire!
♥ I will take at least 1 action today in the direction of my long term plans!
♥ I am always receiving money making ideas and acting upon them!
♥ I only attract loving people in my world for they are a mirror of what I am!
♥ Today, I choose to find the good in myself and others!
♥ I see past old limitations and envision new opportunities!
♥ I love myself. And I love how I feel when I love myself!
♥ I am an extreme action taker!
♥ I am more enthusiastic today and am improving this trait daily!
♥ I am prosperous and abundant. I gain income from unexpected sources!
♥ Divine love is working through me now!
♥ I add value to other people’s lives!
♥ I let go of any burdens that are not mine to carry!
♥ I give generously and from my heart!
♥ I am decisive and follow through!
♥ I am positive and optimistic!
♥ I commit to being rich in every way!
♥ I now have more money that I need!
♥ I always awaken completely refreshed!
♥ Today, I am energetic and enthusiastic!
♥ I live with purpose and passion!
♥ I have compassion for all living things!
♥ I release judgment and criticism of myself and others!
♥ Every breath I take brings me greater health and vitality!
♥ I love my life!
♥ Money is flowing into my life, quickly and easily!
♥ I am grateful for today and for all of my blessings!
Tags: affirmations, Counting Blessings, Forgiveness, Gratitude, Law of Attraction, Life, Living in Gratitude, Love, Motivational, Peace, Prosperity, sandy harper, Self-Development, Thoughts
Sat 10 Apr 2010
I am spending this weekend literally getting my house in order!
As I look around at the toys strewn near & far; at the pile of clean laundry that needs to be folded (that is so tall my 3 year old son has been pretending that it is a mound of snow); at the weeds inching their way higher & higher through the brick pavers in my courtyard…I start to feel overwhelmed. Tears are filling my eyes as I am writing this blog post.
First of all, I am not used to my house getting so out of control and am wondering how in the world I let this happen. Secondly, it is not my style to let people know that things are a mess. After all, I am the gal who holds it all together…running my businesses; maintaining my friendships; being a full-time, single Mommy; acting as head of the household…and never stops smiling!!
But, today…I am confessing that things are a complete mess! So, what do I do?
Well, the first thing I’m doing (after this admission) is “blessing my mess”! That’s right! I am expressing gratitude that I have a home to clean; that I have a child to scatter toys everywhere; that I have friendships to maintain & businesses to run.
Then, I am “grabbing the bull by the horns”! I am ‘cranking up’ my stereo and inviting Madonna, Abba, Michael Jackson, and Bon Jovi into my messy house…to fill me with energy and make the task enjoyable! I will take it one room at a time and will not stop until my house is back in order!
Sometimes our lives become a big mess, don’t they? When that happens…bless your mess, grab the bull by the horns, take it one step at a time, enjoy the journey, and don’t stop until your life is back in order!
And, then…reward yourself!! Any suggestions on what I should do when my house is back in order?
(picture taken from www.bigfoto.com)
Tue 6 Apr 2010
Every once in a while, Opportunity knocks and you know that not only do you need to open the door wide…you need to grab her, give her a welcoming hug, invite her to dinner and use your best china!
I was sitting at my desk a few nights ago and, at the exact moment that I thought to myself, ”I must get my book written NOW”, I received an email from a friend that invited Authors and Aspiring Authors to take part in “The Next Top Spiritual Author” competition. Wow…another serendipitous moment that sent chill bumps all over my body!
Ever since I created “Gratitude Boot Camp” last year and started sharing it as a coaching program, I have been led to put it into book form so that millions can benefit from learning how to make gratitude a daily habit. During the first Gratitude Boot Camp session I watched, in awe, as people’s lives were transformed, personally and professionally. And, after speaking at a Law of Attraction Meetup, I was approached by a woman who told me that I had given her the strength to continue after losing her son 8 months before. My story had inspired her to be grateful for the time that she had him and to focus on her current blessings. That is when I decided to include my personal story, in my book, along with the steps needed to create a life filled with happiness, love, peace, success, and abundance.
The Next Top Author Competition started on March 29th. It is comprised of four rounds where Authors will pitch their book idea; prepare a book proposal; and submit chapters. In the final round, the Grand Prize Winner will receive a publishing contract with Hampton Roads Publishing. I am honored to present my upcoming book, Gratitude Habit, as an entry. You can read more about Gratitude Habit at http://www.SandySpeaks.com/books and can hear the audio pitch on my Next Top Author profile page.
There are over 2500 Authors competing in Round 1. Only 250 will advance to Round 2 and 75% of the vote is based on the number of votes that an Author obtains. Please help me spread the Power of Gratitude to millions by voting for me on my Next Top Author profile page at http://www.sn.im/TopAuthor.
After you vote, send me an e-mail message at Sandy@GratitudeBootCamp.com and I will send you the article that I wrote entitled “6 Simple Ways to Create The Gratitude Habit”. Additonally, everyone who votes will be placed in a drawing to receive free tuition to a 12-week Gratitude Boot Camp TeleClass and an autographed copy of Gratitude Habit.
Welcome Home, Opportunity! I’ve been waiting for you my entire life!!!
Tags: Abundance, Coaching, Counting Blessings, Gratitude, Gratitude Habit, inspirational, Law of Attraction, Life, life-changing event, Motivational, new beginnings, Next Top Author, Opportunity, Peace, Prosperity, sandy harper, Self-Development, Spiritual Book, Writer, Writing
I was having dinner with a friend and we laughed over his latest adventure. Of course, we were able to laugh about it because he had the wisdom and strength not to immediately react to a situation, that could have proven deadly. 
